Some said seeing or listening with your own eyes is good as believing, but in truth sometimes what you see on thee surface, might not be the truth at all. You really have to go search Deep within and seek the True Answer, otherwise you might just misunderstood thee situation.
An Analogy
It’s like you never kill the victim but just happened to pass by and see it, and the murderer which you saw knock you out and put the blood-stain knife in your hands and flee thee scene. Thus you are an innocent victim which is accused of murder. Now how would you feel about that?
People are strange creatures, one wrong word or thing that you make or said and you will be condemned by thee society. But everybody and I mean everybody deserves a Second Chance. We are Not Perfect, nobody can be.
If others have made the same mistakes that we gone through, we should teach them how to solve it instead of screaming or shouting harsh words at them or even worse condemned them for life. It will damage their self-esteem and they will only think of themselves as a hopeless person.
I am no saint either. I have shouted, lose my temper, scream, and throw things at people whom I am mad at. By then after I regret my actions it is all too late, the damage has been done, and no matter how I apologized the scar is there.
Everyone make some rash decisions and regrets in life, but the thing is that each and every one of us must really go and think about the consequences of our actions before and after. Now now don’t tell me when a person is angry he/she loses all rationality. It all boils down to Self-Control.
It is ok to have regrets in life, but Learn from It, and then Let It Go. No use harping on it.